Yes! Both Stripe and Paypal are among the safest payment providers of the world. We partnered with Donorbox, a San Francisco-based fundraising platform to ensure the highest level of security and convenience for you.

We use your donations on the maintenance and development of the dating site and our blog, on education, advertisment and content creation in order to provide a stable, safe and flawless service and generate as much public awareness as it is just possible.

You contribute to our mission to create a worldwide nonmonogamous community both on- and offline.

The existence of Nonmono's dating site depends on your donation. Although we don't give you anything specific, without your contribution we won't be able to maintain our site and expand its user base. 

With a thriving dating site, the whole community wins much. You, too.

Patreon is expensive. Very. Although the platform fee is just 8.5%, there is also a payment processing fee (3.5%+0.35c) and they charge VAT (18-27% depending on your country's tax system) so in the end, the donee receives less than two-third of your donation.

The fees of our system are much lower, meaning that your support arrives where you sent it!

For obvious reasons we never disclose our donor's identity, but you can even anonymize your donation with a single tick on the second page of the donation form.

You can easily manage your recurring donation by following this guide 

or if you have set a recurring donation via PayPal by following this guide.

If you have any questions or concerns please don't hesitate to contact us at hello@nonmono.org!